Disability is not Inability

:: Date-rape

Rape is when a person has sex with another person without their permission. Date-rape is when two people spend time together and may even have had sex together and one of the persons decide they don't want to have sex now. No means no - no excuses!
How to Prevent Drug Induced Sexual Assault
Date Rape Drug Info & Date Rape Prevention Tips

:: Dental Dam

A dental dam is a flat piece of latex used to cover the entrance to the vagina or anus during oral sex. You can buy dental dams for about $1.00 a piece. You can also cut a condom in half and use it - or use a piece of Saran/plastic wrap or cling film.
How to use a Dental Dam or Make Your Own

:: Defilement: see Rape.

:: Dildo: See Sex Toys

A dildo is a sex toy in the shape of a penis.

:: Disability/Disabled/ People with Disabilities

People who have disabilities can be sexual. Sometimes they need extra help in understanding how and when to be sexual, or they may need special information how to be sexual with their disability. (And some people need no help at all!) People with disabilities want and need sex just as much as people without disabilities. See my page on disability and sexuality or self-advocacy.

:: Dolls: See Sex Toys

One kind of sex toy some men use is a blow up rubber doll. This is a safe form of sex as long as the doll is clean.

:: Douche / Douching

Using water or another liquid to flush out the vagina of all its natural scent, lubrication. and bacteria. It is usually a completely unnecessary practice (although it can be suggested or prescribed by a doctor) and can actually upset the natural pH and useful bacterial balance of the vagina.
Why not Douche?

:: Dry Sex

Having sex where no fluid is shared. This is nearly impossible to do unless you are wearing several layers of thick clothing, and is not a safe way to have sex. Having sex and pulling out is not dry sex and not safe.

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