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Fellatio

Fellatio is oral sex with a man. A person using their mouth and tongue licks and sucks the penis, and sometimes the testicles. There is nothing wrong with putting a clean penis in your mouth. Men, especially uncircumcised men should make sure they wash well if they will be having oral sex. Fellatio is also called in slang: blow-job, giving head, and sucking-off.

Female Anatomy /Body Parts

A woman is more than the sum of her body parts. It is equally important for men to understand female anatomy as it is for women. Women's bodies are complicated because so much goes on inside and is unseen. Even a Barbie doll has nothing between her legs but a smoooth section of plastic.

The links I found below help, but only a little. On the outside of a woman are two important areas: her breasts and her vulva. The breasts are easy - those we see all the time. They come in all sizes, and no matter what their size will work to feed babies milk. Some women get really turned-on when their breasts/nipples/areola are touched and others do not.

How come nobody uses the word vulva? The outside of the woman is not her vagina - that's inside. The vulva is the area between her legs that includes her labia/ genital lips, her clitoris, the entrance to her vagina, her urethra/pee hole, and more. The clitoris is the only body part that is only for pleasure - find it and find her little piece of heaven. Many women have very sensitive labias and enjoy having them stroked or tickled. Every woman has a unique looking vulva - no two are alike - like snow flakes!

Inside a woman are mostly the parts that help make babies. The vagina, the uterus, the fallopian tubes, the ovaries are all important to good sexual health and pregnancy. The one exception to this is the g-spot. The one BIG mistake that is often made by people new to sex is thinking that getting inside the vagina is the most important part of sex. Start from the outside and slowly work inside - great sex (alone or with someone) can be had without ever getting inside!

Human anatomy Online - click the body part and learn about it
Female Sexual Anatamy
Learning about Female Bodyparts
Guide to Female Reproduction System
Drawing of Ovaries, Fallopian Tubes, Uterus, and Vagina
Drawing of female breast, nipple, and areola

Fetishes & Paraphilias

A fetish is when a person gets turned on by a specific body part (the foot) or object ( high-heeled shoes.) There is nothing wrong with having a fetish, unless it makes your life difficult or sad. A fetish can be just a preference, or it can be a requirement for the person to get turned -on.

A paraphilia can be a fetish, but it can also be an activity (watersports) that one prefers to do or must do to get tuned on. A paraphilia can be an activity that two (or more) people agree to do together OR it can be something one does without the permission of others. A paraphilia is not a problem unless it makes you feel bad - OR you do it without the permission of everyone involved (like a person who opens his raincoat on a playground and is naked underneath.)

Sometimes people are really embarrassed by their fetish or paraphilia and are afraid to tell people, even those they love. It is better to tell somebody you care about very early in a relationship. This gives them time to get used to the idea of your fetish or paraphilia, or leave the relationship before either of you are too involved. You can also get counseling to help you (and/or your partner) learn to accept or get treatment for your paraphilia or fetish. Some examples of fetishes and paraphilias:

• Body Parts & characteristics: feet. toes, breasts, ears, neck, small of back, legs, hair, amputations, long blonde hair, long red nails, penis without foreskin, penis with foreskin, beards, mustaches,

• Clothing: high-heels (retifism), nylons, bras, panties, diapers, corsets, tight jeans

• Activities: shaving, talking "dirty" (coprolalia), cybersex, pain (algophilia), enemas (klismophlia), tickling, urinating/peeing (watersports or urophilia), w/ stuffed animals, w/ animals (bestiality), w/ mannequins, phone sex, w/ blow-up dolls, watching people (voyeurism or scopophilia), being watched or exposing yourself (exhibitionism or apodysophilia), acting like a baby (infantalism.)

Foreskin

Foreskin is the skin at the end of the penis. It can be cut off during circumcision, or left intact. In some religions, it is important to go through the ritual of circumcision. In some countries circumcision is very common and in other very uncommon. No man should be embarrassed because he still has or does not have his foreskin. The foreskin is also called the prepuce. A man who still has his foreskin may be called uncut or intact.

Men who have foreskin need to be sure to wash under their foreskin carefully to prevent infection and to keep it smelling and tasting clean. Women do not need to feel any hesitation about having sex (including oral sex) with men with intact foreskin.
Male Foreskin

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