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Sado-Masocism/ S & M: see BDSM
Safer sex: see Birth Control
There is no such thing as safe sex - if what you mean by safe
sex is NO chance of getting pregnant and NO chance of getting
disease (and you have sex with more than one person). One or the
other or both ALWAYS exists. You can limit the chances of getting
pregnant or getting disease and that is called SAFER sex.
Making the decision to have sex
Safer sex for everybody
Lesbian Women and Safer Sex
Safer Sex for Men who have Sex with Men
Hepatitis for Gay and Bisexual Men
Scotum: see Male Body Parts
Sexual (vaginal) Intercourse
Vaginal intercourse is when a man puts his penis inside a woman.
There are dozens of different positions one can have sex in. Missionary
or man-on-top is the most traditional is some countries, but is
often the least pleasurable for women. The other most common postions
are woman-on-top, side-by-side, rear entry (not to be confused
with anal intercourse), and too many others to list. Other slang
words used to describe sex are: fucking, balling, boinking, banging,
and more.
Sexual Orientation
What sex of person turns you on??? Men, women, both, or nobody.
Not sure? Fill out the Sexual Orientation Worksheet.
Sexual Orientation Worksheet
Sex Toys
There are thousands of sex toys on the market. Some are for women,
some for men, and some for both. They are made of rubber, plastic,
silicone, Pyrex, and other materials. Some are electrical, some
are waterproof, some use batteries, and some you just hold in
your hands. Sex toys are used by people who want to abstain from
sex before marriage, to masturbate with, to help when they have
a disability that makes having sex different, and by couples who
just like using them. Sex toys are not legal for everyone to purchase
-different countries and states have different rules.
Susan's Sex Toy Shop
History of Sex Toys
Sexually Transmitted Disease
A sexually transmitted disease means it is a disease one gets
when a person has sex with another person. It come from contact
with ejaculation, vaginal lubrication, blood, and/or other substances.
A person can pass on an infection and not know they have it. If
you get one of these diseases, you and everybody you have had
sex with needs to get treated. You need to see a doctor RIGHT
AWAY! Other names include: STD (sexually transmitted disease),
STI (sexually transmitted infection), and VD (venereal disease).
• Vaginitis ( Including Candidiasis,Trichomoniasis,and
Bacterial Vaginosis)
A very common family of disease that mostly women get, but men
can get from a woman partner. It is when you have a very very
itchy vagina and it may smell badly. A women can also get it even
if she has never had sex. Other names: monilial vaginitis, yeast
infection, candida, trich, BV, cervicitis, vulvitis, gardnella
vaginalis, and crotch rot.
Vaginitis.
• Urinary Tract Infections/ Bladder Infections
(UTI)
A very common disease that mostly women get, but men can get too.
It is when you need to pee/urinate a lot, and it burns. You can
have a high fever and a stomach ache. A women can also get it
even if she has never had sex, but sexual activity can frequently
cause a UTI, but so can wearing very tight clothing, or doing
some sports.
UTI.
Bladder infection
• Gonorrhea
Most common in people ages 15 to 30 - they often have chlamydia,
too. In men it looks like milk coming out of penis, pain and burning
when you pee/urinate, sore throat, swollen glands, and itchy or
bleeding anus. Most women have no symptoms, but some have what
looks like milk coming out of their vagina or painful itching,
sore throat, and swollen glands. Sometimes people have it with
no symptoms, but pass it on to somebody and they do have symptoms.
Slang: GC, dose, clap, drip.
Gonorrhea.
• Chlamydia Trachomatis (Chlamydia)
Chlamydia is very common in teenagers and young adults. It is
the most common STD in the US and the UK. Men have very few symptoms
and often don't know until their partner tells them ( Circumcised
men get it more often than men who are uncircumcised.) If they
have any symptoms it looks like water or milk is coming from their
penis, it may burn when they pee/urinate, and their scrotum might
be swollen. Women sometimes have no symptoms either, but they
can have a vaginal discharge or bleeding between their menstrual
periods, have bad stomache ache, and it can hurt to pee/urnate.
Slang:The Clam, Gooey Stuff.
Chlamydia.
•Mononucleosis / Mono
A very contagious form of herpes - but it is not genital herpes.
You can get it from kissing someone with an open mouth/french
kissing - that's why some people callit the kissing disease. This
is really common for teenagers and college students to get.
Mono
• Pubic Lice (Crabs) & Scabies
Tiny little bugs that live in your pubic hair or the folds of
your skin and are very very itchy. You can get these from having
sex with somebody who has crabs or scabies, but also from sharing
towels. sheets, clothing, or just sleeping close. You can buy
a special shampoo at the store that will help you get rid of these.
You also need to wash all your clothes,sheets,and towels in very
very hot water.
Scabies
• Genital Herpes (Herpes Simplex Virus).
Herpes are a family of very painful diseases you get by touching
a herpes sore (or where a sore is going to be soon) with your
body. Herpes are very painful sores - genital herpes are on your
penis, vagina, or anus, and sometimes your mouth. There is no
known cure for genital herpes. Some kinds of herpes you do not
get from sex -like chicken pox.
Herpes
• Genital warts (Human Papilloma Virus)
Small pink or red warts on your penis, anus, vulva. Some warts
are OK, and some are not. You get them from touching your skin
to the skin of a person with the virus. If you get a wart, it
is best to see a doctor to be sure it is just a regular wart.
When you get genital warts you usually get lots of them, but sometimes
you can have the virus and have no warts at all. Also called:
HPV, veneral warts, and condylomata.
Warts.
• Syphilis
This is very rare in young people and a very serious disease.
First sign you can see is a small painless sore on the mouth,
anus, penis, vulva, or vagina. In women the sore may be inside
her vagina and not be seen except by a doctor.
Syphilis.
• Hepatitis A,B,and C
This is a very serious family of liver infections you get from
touching infected blood, vaginal lubrication, or ejaculation,
or for Hepatitis A -feces/shit/poop. You usually have no symptoms
until it is too late. There is a vaccine/shot for hepatitis A
and B which is highly recommended for sexually active adults.
Hepatitis.
Hepatitis A,B and C
• Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV)
You get it from touching blood (sores with blood in them - like
hang nails), blood products or breast milk. HIV infection gets
worse and worse and almost always after a fews years becomes Acquired
Immunodeficiency Syndrome (AIDS). You might not have any sympmtoms
for several years, but some people have something that seems like
the flu and a rash right after they get it.
HIV
Shaving
Many men begin to shave their faces during puberty. Some men shave
other parts of their bodies too, including their penis and scrotum.
Many women begin to shave under their arms, and their legs during
puberty. Some women have facial hair that they shave, and some
shave their vulva area. Waxing, using a diplitory cream (like
Neet), or electrolisis are other hair removal choices for both
men and women.
Shaving is a personal choice. In some countries it is very uncommon
for men and or women to shave, in other countries it is very common.
Only shave if YOU want to shave. Hair is a natural part of your
body and a person who cares about you should not be bothered by
your hair - NO matter where it is.
Shaving Tips
Sixty-nine "69": see Fellatio and
Cunnilingus
Two people having oral sex with each other at the same time.
Spanking: see BDSM
Sperm/ Semen
The male sex cells are called sperm. They are made inside the
testes/testicles. A sperm is very very tiny - .002 inches long.
It has a tiny head with a long tail. Inside the head is DNA -
and when that bumps against the egg of a women the egg is fertilized
(now it's an ovum) and a baby starts to grow. Most men have millions
of sperm at a time. A man's body is making sperm all-the-time.
When a man ejaculates, he usually releases millions of sperm -
and it takes just one to get a woman pregnant.
What does a sperm look like pushing into an egg?
Some facts you may not know about Sperm!
Squeeze technique
A way for a man to control his ejaculation. When he feels like
he is getting close - he or his partner squeeze the base of his
penis until the feeling to ejaculate passes. This can be done
several times.
Better Sex.com
Straight: see Heterosexual
Suicide
Suicide is wanting to kill yourself. It is when the pain is so
bad you think you can't take it anymore. If you feel that way
or you know somebody who does- read the link. I wish I wrote it,
but I didn't. If you need to somebody to listen, email me.
You can feel really bad, but you can Cope
Swinging
Swinging means different things to different people. Couples who
like to trade sexual partners with another couple are swingers,
but couples who like to have sex in the same room as another couple
are often called swingers too. The couple is usually married,
but doesn't have to be.
Switch-hitter: see Bisexual
Bisexual OR to describe a person who likes to switch from having
sex in a dominant (dom) to submissive (sub) position and vise
versa. Also called just a switch.
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