Disability is not Inability

:: Do say you’re sorry

Friends don’t hurt each other and Allan says he make it a point to apologies to his wife even when she is clearly the one in the wrong. Why? Because he doesn’t want his wife to hurt and he knows that saying sorry “won’t diminish my manliness one bit.”

“My mouth won’t get blisters because I said sorry. I am human and I make mistakes. I even say sorry to the children. It doesn’t make me change colour… I remain the same.”

Allan says he finds it difficult to concentrate at work or any other activity when he is in conflict with his wife. “When we have a fight, we try and reconcile almost immediately. You can’t give your best friend a black-out for too long.”