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Disability
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:: Proud Kenyan and living with disability
There are many things that we can change but very few
we actually manage to change with the wrong attitude. I say this
because of the kind of response i have started receiving as the
coountry gets into election mood. That we persons with disabilities
have nothing to be proud of.
My little experience with being physically challenged in life
has taught me that my perception to anything determines my reaction
to it. Quite a number of kenyans have an attitude to disability
because they do not understand it. It is out of their normal process
of thought. I have seen people who
would stand in shock at the sight of a person with
a disability. But again many persons with disabilities also have
a perception challenge with their situation. This has destroyed
the self esteem and ability therefore to profit even from their
God given talents.
As a matter of fact PWDs in the West have developed by building
or capitalising on the skills they have that the people without
disabilties do not have. Education in the West is talent exploitation.
This is the same both for people with or without disabilities.
I will therefore not allow my disability to stifle my talent.
If there is an opportunity for education i pray my God that it
helps me realise what is it i can do that can earn me aliving
within my situation. So even within the disability community just
like the general community there are those who have overcame their
disability and brought out their talents for a decent livelihood.
It all began with an article early during the year in which we
adopted the slogan I am
proud to be Kenyan into Kenya Sign Language (KSL).
This was followed by some form of explanations about the origins
of the signs and their varieties. But more important was the discussions
we had with various PWDs in relation to this question:
Are you a Proud Kenyan.
This therefore is where i come from. That being a person with
disability in Kenya is definately better than many other African
countries and indeed the World. If you think you can go to America
and do what you cannot do here you are mistaken. America does
not give free things they are only ahead in building talents.
Just like being me is better than me being you. I love to be me.
I look at myself in the Mirror and thank God for making me to
be me. I was amused that during
the time NIck Vivichi was around quite a number of
persons with disabilities wanted to be Nick. While Nick wanted
to be able to do more.
Many Kenyans then went home with the mind that Nick is Nick because
He is from Australia a developed country. While i may agree there
may be better services to PWDs in Australia than in Kenya. I disagree
that the services taught nick his capabilities. If you stay with
the man for a while he is always looking at what you can do that
he cannot do. He was challenged by a boy in Dagoretti special
school who could draw with his legs!! There are many in Australia
livign with disability and all the nice things there that cannot
do what Nick can do. "Its attitude stupid" if i may
borrow Bill Clinton wording.
So many persons with disabilities may be confusing proud to be
Kenyan with lack of self-esteem. This is unfortunately not only
a challenge of PWDs but also Kenyans in general. Many think some
politician has to make me proud. Many think self esteem is a project
of the Goovernment. That if you have got some goodies especially
during this election year that you should now be proud.
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