Disability is not Inability

:: Why suffer from bewitched love?

Yesterday sunday 10th March i stayed in the house the whole day. My Brother went to boarding school so there was no body to compete for television with. l decided to watch a Nigerian movie.

The movie was about love and its challenges in our African society. It started with this man with a nice car driving along the road only to meet this long lost lady friend. He decides to talk to her and they have a long talk. But the woman had fell in in love with the man. Unfortunately the man had saw another very beautiful woman from the side mirror. The reason the man was staying around was to find out where is the house of the beautiful lady he saw. Little did his lady friend in the car know.

The man started coming to that area to look for his friend but only to see if he can meet the other beautiful girl. Soon the beautiful girl realised the eyes of the man in the car. She would pass near the car in tight sexy clothes and the man would look through the side mirror and loose his mind. He would meanwhile be talking with his other lady friend who now was telling people that her boyfriend had a very nice car. The other girl was very beautiful and had very nice buttocks, that made made the man mad with love.

One day she came and the friend was with the beautiful girl. They talked for some time then he wanted to say goodbye. she forgot to say goodbye to her girlfriend. He only said good bye to the beautiful girl.

And as he sat in the car he even forgot to look at his friend as he drove off watching the other beautiful girl's behind.

The friend was very angry and went into the house crying. Her mother explained to her that she has a solution to getting the man. She decided to go and see her old witch friend. The next time the man come. He said hello to both and started talking to the beautiful girl. They talked alot again and started holding hands and Kissing. The the beautiful girl went away and he continued talking to his other friend. Her friend was very angry but tried to keep it secret. When she home she told her mother to go see her witch friend.

The next time the man came and directly called the other beautiful girl and they started kissing infront of the other friend. They sat in the car holding hands and kissing. They talked about love infront of the other girlfriend. "You are very beautiful my dear" the man said "thank you" When the other friend come, he took the hand of the beautiful girl went into the car and they drove off. The girlfriend mother went to see the witch and they started doing things to the man at night. The man started seeing the girlfriend in dream saying "you must love me", "You must love me".

Soon the witch put something bad to the man and the man's mind went mad. Soon he lost his car and his job. The man started walking on the streets and markets like we usually see. Then the beautiful woman went to church and started praying. She pray that God help his man become well. She pray long time and ask God to improve life of the man that loves her.

The Man started seeing two voices at night. One of the good lady and the other friend a bad voice.The good voice tell her to pray to God. To go to church and see God solve all the problems he had. The other bad voice say he must love her or die. One day he met the beautiful girl who led him to her pastor and was taken to church. They prayed and man was well. They soon got married and lived well for ever after.

The Movie taught me alot about what jealousy can do to someone. It also taught me that always as a woman i must find out what a man wants, an as a man i must find out what my actions can do to woman. Each men loves a certain types of a woman and each woman loves a certain type of a man. Do not force yourself to someone. If a man or a woman does not love you look for another one.

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